Client Testimonials

Conception with charting only

Conception after an Initial Session by fertility charting only.

 Conception after an Initial Session only (2013)

Freda was amazing.  She listened carefully to the clients' story and then, without being either technical or patronising, she gently explained the woman's cycle and the signs she should look out for that showed when she was at her most fertile.  After a long period of facing the spectre of infertility, this couple are now expecting their first baby!

Fertility awareness for a young couple (2021)

We are now 20 weeks pregnant and the support from natural fertility matters was absolutely invaluable in getting us here. 

I would recommend Freda to anyone who is trying to conceive or just wants to learn more about their cycle! 

After nearly 2 years trying to conceive, Freda helped us identify the fertile window and resulted in a pregnancy in 2021 that sadly ended in a loss, followed by our current pregnancy this year. Looking forward to arrival of baby in the autumn :)

Irregular & long cycles - conception with fertility charting only

 Irregular & Long Cycle (2014)

I’d always had irregular and long cycles and I suspected that getting pregnant would be a problem in the future. 


Before I met Freda, I spoke to my GP about it who said that the NHS guidance for my age group (34 years old) is to wait another 3-4 years before they start to investigate the infertility issues. Or to try the IVF, which wasn’t an option for us.


When I started charting, we learned that most of my cycle was infertile with a very short fertile window.  We monitored my cycles for about 6 months and just when I was about to contact the fertility clinic about treatment we discovered that I was pregnant - our baby girl is due in 3 weeks time!


There’s a lot of information on the internet on how to chart temperature and mucus by yourself, however for me, the face to face sessions and an opportunity for Q&A gave me a confidence that the charting is done correctly and no time is wasted. It’s also great to know that if charting isn’t enough, there’s a further support from a team of professionals with the similar ethical outlook and a focus on finding the core of the problem.

Secondary Infertility (2014)

My husband and I had been trying to conceive our second child for 2 years without any success. 

For ethical reasons, I wanted to try a more natural way of conceiving, but also wanted to find out why we were having difficulty in conceiving the 2nd time around.  There were so many unanswered questions which I found were answered by knowing my body better with the help of the wonderful Freda!

When we had our first meeting with Freda we were sold!  I found working with Freda to be an absolute pleasure. She was very understanding, supportive and explained everything in so much detail.  She is so passionate about her work and her enthusiasm has rubbed onto me.

I’ve found that using this method has not only blest us with a pregnancy after several months of being introduced to it, but it has also made me understand my body/cycles very well.

I would highly recommend Freda to anyone and to all women regardless of whether they are trying or trying not to conceive.

Thanks so much Freda! Keep up the good work.

Male Sub-fertility

Conception achieved with Male Variocele

Male Sub-fertility with Variocele (2014)

We had our first daughter 4 years ago, without any difficulties.  Over the past 2.5 years, we have tried to conceive a second child.  After a very frustrating process with NHS, severe male infertility was diagnosed and we were told that IVF would be the only solution to move forward.  

For ethical reasons refused the disposing of embryos and decided to explore alternative routes.

We were fortunate enough to be connected with a restorative fertility doctor who was both empathetic and extremely rigorous in her scientific approach to identify the roots of our issues.  For the first time, we had the impression to meet a true professional with long-standing experience.  As French nationals, it was also a great help to navigate the UK healthcare system.


The next steps were clear:

To our great surprise and while we had just initiated some of the treatments, my wife became pregnant! Our doctor and Freda were at this point very helpful, advising some progesterone support. 


We are extremely grateful to the clinic and Freda. We know how difficult it is to remain confident when affected by infertility and that other people stories may not help.  However, we have been told on numerous occasions we will not have another child without IVF and facts have disproved these opinions. 


Update in 2023: this couple now has 2 more children after their conception back in 2014.  The last 2 children were conceived after the surgery to correct the variocele.

Conception with male sub-fertility

 Male Sub-fertility (2015)

My wife and I had been trying to conceive for a number of years.  

After over 6 months of going through the NHS, we were told that due to male infertility the only possible way to conceive was through IVF (ICSI).  When we told the doctor that for ethical reasons we would not participate in this, he was dumbfounded and said that we should reconsider, as there was no way we would become pregnant without ICSI.  It was a frustrating and eye-opening experience that there were no other alternative treatments for such a common situation.


About the same time, we started meeting with Freda.  Freda was incredibly helpful and generous with her time in guiding us through this process.  She helped us understand our monthly fertility cycle in a level of detail that was critical in achieving conception.  She was practical in her suggestions and natural in the delivery of the course material.  She is incredibly knowledgeable and has experience in a wide range of fertility situations. 


Three months later we conceived naturally.  We can not more highly recommend any couple having trouble conceiving to meet with Freda to explore how to overcome fertility issues.

Male sub-fertility followed by 4 live births (2014, 2017, 2019, 2022)

We wanted to take a moment to express our deepest gratitude for the tremendous support you provided us in our journey to conceive our first child back in 2014. Your expertise in natural fertility and your unwavering dedication in helping us chart our cycles were truly invaluable.

We faced a multitude of challenges on our journey, including male factor issues, low progesterone, maternal age issues, and a highly stressed lifestyle. However, you never gave up on us and remained a constant source of hope and encouragement. Your knowledge and guidance in navigating these obstacles were instrumental in our success.

To our sheer amazement and joy, we went on to conceive not just one, but two more children after our initial success. It felt like a dream come true to see our family grow before our eyes. Even more recently, your expertise and support played a crucial role in helping us conceive our rainbow baby, a child who brings us immeasurable happiness and hope.

We truly believe that without your expertise in hormonal treatments and your dedicated charting assistance, we may not have been blessed with our beautiful children. Your passion for helping couples start their families shines through in all that you do, and we wanted to share this heartfelt testimony to acknowledge the incredible impact you have had on our lives.

Thank you for holding our hands throughout this journey, and for offering us unwavering love and support. We are forever grateful to you for helping us fulfill our dreams of becoming parents.

Conception with Medical Support

Conception with Neo Fertility (Hormonal Support)

Conception with Neo Fertility (2018)

My husband and I began learning how to chart my fertility with Freda back in 2015. We really valued what a thorough and encouraging coach Freda was and how much time and care she gave us, in order to help us successfully master the charting.

In 2017, we decided we wanted to use charting to achieve conception. Freda had already identified some irregularities in my cycle and recommend we got in touch with the Neo Fertility clinic in Dublin to make sure we had the best chance of conceiving.

The clinic was very professional and methodical about finding out what the cause of my cycle irregularities was, and after some investigation, it became apparent that I had sub-optimum progesterone levels which would have made it very difficult for us to maintain a healthy pregnancy.

I am so grateful to both Freda and the clinic for sparing us from a lot of potential heartbreak, and with the right hormonal support we were able to conceive fairly quickly, and now have a healthy and beautiful 2-year-old boy who we love and adore.

Secondary Infertility (2023 Oct)

Thank you Freda for all your support through our journey. Your practical support navigating us through a new process was invaluable. You are extremely knowledgeable and caring and always there for advice. Your support online and via messages is excellent and you are so easy to contact and reliable with this. We appreciate all you have done for us. Thank you! 

Two Neo babies for a PCOS client

Two Neo babies with a PCOS client (2019, 2022)

We used natural fertility matters to successfully conceive the first time three years ago (born 2019 Jan) after multiple IVF failures and miscarriages and no help or guidance from the NHS. So, when my husband and I decided to try for a second child, we had no doubts about getting in touch with Freda and Dr Phil Boyle from Neo Fertility in Dublin. 

Freda is the kindest soul you can ever come across. She is patient, listens carefully and helps motivate throughout the fertility treatment. Along with Dr Phil Boyle, she makes an excellent team and makes the entire treatment process a breeze. They are always available over emails, and their professional yet friendly and positive guidance makes the whole process not daunting. 

The overall treatment process is very natural and helps fix the fertility issue rather than a band-aid approach. Freda is accommodating when it comes to charting and constantly guides through the process. Previously I used the physical chart. This time around, there was this effective mobile app that I was using to chart my cycle. Though sometimes, I missed Freda's handwritten notes that she would scribble on my charting. 

In a matter of months, I fell pregnant again and was being monitored by the team at Neo Fertility to make sure we deliver a healthy baby (due 2022 Jan). 

Together, Freda and Dr Phil Boyle make a great team, bring in a lot of positivity to the couples trying to conceive naturally, and always support you in this journey. May God bless them in this journey and make things easy for them and their teams.

Two Neo babies for a long term client (2019, 2021)

On the recommendation of a friend, we went to Freda for lessons in charting my cycle in the run-up to our wedding (2012, aged 31).

 

She was clear, knowledgeable and helpful and I felt confident in how to chart my cycle going forward.

 

I went back to Freda for advice and a charting review about 18 months later.  She quickly identified some changes and anomalies in my chart and suggested I consult a doctor specialising in natural fertility.

 

Freda maintained contact with me throughout, providing advice and support, for which I was very grateful.

 

Eventually, after seeing a couple of doctors, we went to Dr Boyle at Neo Fertility (2017), and after following his regimen of hormone injections and medication, aimed at balancing my cycle and ensuring ovulation, we had our long-awaited first daughter who was born in August 2019 (aged 38).

 

We returned to Neo Fertility for support soon after the birth of our daughter.  After 3 months of treatment, a second daughter was conceived and was born in March 2021 (aged 40).

 

I cannot thank Freda and Neo Fertility enough for everything they have done to enable us to have our two lovely girls.

 

So many people along the way suggested IVF as the only or obvious option, and we did not want to go down this route.

 

The work of both Freda and Neo Fertility shows a natural, restorative approach to fertility issues yields great results.

 

Thank you again.

First baby with a young couple (2022)

After 18 months of struggling to conceive, I was introduced through a friend to Freda McMahon.  My husband and I had our first meeting with her having undergone numerous NHS fertility tests, being diagnosed with ‘unexplained infertility’.  We were quite strongly encouraged by the NHS to go down the IUI/IVF routes.  As we were relatively young (29 and 31), we felt frustrated by the lack of other options from the NHS, such as trying to find what the underlying cause of our infertility might be or alternative support to help us conceive naturally. We were so pleased to find that Natural Fertility Matters provided the support and direction we were after, which turned out to be way beyond what the NHS and other private doctors we met could provide. 


Freda was very kind and committed to us throughout, and despite our NHS diagnosis and situation, she was optimistic about our chances of conceiving naturally, which was a real comfort. 

 

She is very knowledgable and has a rational statistical approach grounded in quantitive evidence. She set out from the beginning that she was aiming to help me to read and understand my natural cycle, while getting my body into the best condition to increase our chances of natural conception. Learning about my hormones, my cycle and all the natural fertility signs of my body was fascinating - stuff I wish we were taught at school!

 

Freda introduced me to Dr Boyle at Neo Fertility who she works closely with, and who prescribed me with a medical plan to investigate my infertility and help me conceive naturally.  I might have been quite overwhelmed with Dr Boyle’s programme without Freda, who held my hand throughout the journey and was amazing at being attentive to me whenever I had questions, worries or updates. Her approach was holistic - she even did a marriage session with me and my husband to help support our marriage through the fertility struggle. 


We conceived for the first time after having been with Neo Fertility for just over a year.  


I am now 15 weeks into a healthy pregnancy (ETA early autumn 2022).  We are so grateful that we were introduced to Freda and would highly recommend her to anyone struggling with fertility.

First baby for a 41-year old (ETA 2024)

Hmmm how to describe Freda? An angel is what most people would describe Freda as. Insofar as she came out of nowhere, helped us selflessly, with boundless energy, enthusiasm, diligence and effectiveness . If Freda was going for her angel license, you could say she’s earned her wings. Freda is a very special human. 

In a past life Freda was a high level corporate servant [read super efficient] and she is very capable of delivering information she can balance this so well with experience in many tricky situations which is a massive relief as during the fertility process, you will encounter many unknowns. Freda’s cool in our difficult situations was invaluable. For instance we thought we lost the baby at one point and that it turned out to be no such thing and that some minor bleeding during pregnancy can be entirely harmless when dealt with.

While Freda is not on the medically expert side [not a doctor] she can handle a vast gamut of your day to day issues and when she can’t then you can escalate the issue to your doctor. 

Freda was/is an invaluable aid in this process and remains an angel us for us. Equally, her pricing is ridiculously fair. Freda does that intentionally to remain inclusive, she is rare in an industry that can be very financially driven. 

I am now successfully 15 weeks pregnant, thanks to Freda and NeoFertility.

Excellent experience. 10/10

Recurrent Miscarriages with Medical Support

Early pregnancy losses due to uterine septum (aged 40, 2023)

We got married in 2019 and since we are both older, wanted to start our family as soon as possible.


When we were unsuccessful by the summer of 2020, a mutual friend put me in touch with Maria (O'Brien), who taught us how to chart our natural cycles. The months we spent working with Maria were not only reassuring and enlightening, but also a great investment.


After charting with no successful pregnancy after 3 months Maria suggested that we organise an appointment with Dr Phil Boyle at Neo Fertility in Ireland, especially as I was unable to access any help on the NHS given my age and weight. Telemedicine had become the norm thanks to Covid; therefore, we had no issues or reservations whatsoever seeking Dr Boyle’s help through video consultations. 


Having worked with Maria previously, we had 3 months’ worth of charts available for him to go by at our first appointment, which meant that he could immediately make suggestions for treatment, without needing to wait any longer. I also started to access acupuncture locally around this time.


After 1 month on Dr Boyle’s suggested treatment, we were astounded to see our first ever positive pregnancy test in April 2021.  This kicked in over the Easter weekend and being so early on in our care pathway with Dr Boyle, I had no idea what the next steps should have been. Maria immediately put me in touch with Freda, who contacted Dr Boyle on my behalf and within 24hrs I had all the scripts and guidelines I needed.  Freda also helped me contact a partner pharmacy in London who was able to courier the medication I needed within 24hrs.


Unfortunately, we lost this first pregnancy at 6 weeks (missed miscarriage). Dr Boyle, Freda and Maria were incredibly supportive during this very sad and challenging time for us. 


Dr Boyle tweaked my medication regime, Freda and Maria supported me both emotionally and with practical advice about self-care, recovery from the loss and more practically with suggestions for supplements, etc that complemented the medical treatment.


We started trying again and in August 2021 I had a second positive test. We were understandably very apprehensive this time round and focussed on following the steps in Dr Boyle’s programme while not allowing our emotions to run away with us. 


We unfortunately lost this second pregnancy at 10 weeks – Dr Boyle was able to ascertain that it was not viable 3 weeks after the positive test, based on the weekly blood tests he requests.  Sadly, it took several weeks for this 2nd missed miscarriage to pass. Once again, Freda and Maria were there to support me through this awful time with advice and support.


Following this 2nd loss, Dr Boyle suggested that my repeated miscarriages could be secondary to silent endometriosis and he referred me to his colleague, Mr Moiad Alazzam, in Oxford, for a surgical opinion. On meeting Mr Alazzam and discussing my history, he did not feel that there were enough clinical signs to justify a diagnostic laparoscopy for endometriosis, however he was of the opinion that I most likely had a uterine septum that was interfering with implantation. We therefore agreed to schedule a diagnostic hysteroscopy, which I underwent at the end of May 2022.  Sure enough – he found and excised a subtotal uterine septum. 


Recovery was swift and uneventful, and we were given the go-ahead to try again in Aug 2022.  I restarted acupuncture over the summer of 2022 and much to our joy (and anxiety!) we had another positive test at the beginning of Oct 2022.  


I am currently 19 weeks pregnant and everything appears to be going well.  Freda and Maria have continued to support us throughout and Dr Boyle and his team are only an email away. 


As I reflect on the past 18 months and the journey we have made both as a couple but also as individuals, I can’t help but be very grateful for Maria, Freda, Dr Boyle and his team.  We wouldn’t have been able to get anywhere near this without their input and support. Thank you ever so much!